So... I finally figured I needed (& deserved) to just take the 20bucks he left me and hit the town with my girlies!
In all honesty, I struggled a bit (what 48hs?) with that decision. I don't need his money/charity/support/whatever... I don't want to establish the impression that I've accepted his words, by cashing his check... I don't, erg, it's not even worth hashing out still. Bottom line: *shrug* it was perfect for a lovely evening, with an appetizer & a fabulous Lemon Drop, on the deck, with my girls!

Here's to you! plbbt...