there is absolutely nothing worse than feeling entirely unwelcome/unwanted... somewhere that you were otherwise desired and totally invited!
it's that weird, sort of random, 'i see this... yet I also know this... so, ack! what do i do!?' feeling. entirely dumb (along with about 500 million other things I've experienced lately!) *runs out to find another word for dumb using her new friend thesaurus.com*
yeah, so it's totally dumb thick that people feel the need to make assumptions, second guess intentions, meddle (to say the least), create & spread complete untruth, and simply sit back and assume no sense of responsibility of such when called out on it!
be forewarned: every now & then, I get on a rampage... I stop letting things slide... and I get all up in arms about any and everything when bombarded. so prepare ye selves for further rambling, ranting, raving, and possibly actual yelling are you among the blessed to actually see me in person at times! *smuggy smirking in angst*
